There’s something timeless about a wedding that doesn’t follow trends, but tells a story. The whimsical wedding isn’t just about florals and lace—it’s about creating a feeling, a narrative, a little touch of magic in every detail. Whether you’re planning your own or helping a friend, here are some of my favorite ways to bring that soft, nostalgic charm to life.

Start with the Stationery
Your invitations set the tone. Choose vintage-inspired fonts, delicate illustrations, and romantic wording. Think pressed flowers, aged paper, and a palette of soft pinks, sepias, and creams.

Lean Into Sentimentality
Incorporate heirlooms or handwritten notes—like a vintage mirror with love notes from family members, or a ribbon from your grandmother’s wedding dress wrapped around your bouquet.

Romanticize the Ordinary
From table settings to guest favors, even the smallest details can feel like part of a fairytale. Use wax seals, silk ribbon, handwritten place cards, or antique-style menus to elevate the mood.

Play with Light and Texture
Candles, chandeliers, twinkle lights—moody, romantic lighting is your best friend. Layer gauze, tulle, or embroidered linens to add softness and depth to your decor.

Don’t Forget the Music
A whimsical wedding soundtrack might include vintage jazz, classical string covers of modern love songs, or even ethereal folk. Think of music as part of the atmosphere, not just a background detail.

At the end of the day, a whimsical wedding is about creating a world that feels beautifully, deeply you. Let it be soft. Let it be romantic. Let it linger in your guests’ memories like the pages of a love story they’ve somehow wandered into.